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Choosing to elope isn’t a decision to be taken lightly. It’s not a passing trend, either. Your wedding should be an authentic celebration, a moment that reflects who you truly are. Here, we share the 8 most common reasons our couples choose an elopement over a traditional wedding.

Because, at the end of the day, your wedding is your own story.

Your wedding day should be an intentional celebration, true to your personality. An elopement allows you to experience that day without constraints or external expectations. Whether you choose an elopement or a traditional wedding, the key is asking yourself the right questions. What truly resonates with you? That’s what matters most.

Here are the reasons why many couples have chosen an elopement instead of a traditional wedding. We hope this inspires you!

1. A big wedding doesn’t feel like us.

It’s about choosing what reflects you, without giving in to pressure. For many, organizing a big wedding feels like an obligation. You don’t need to put on a show for hundreds of people. Why not skip the traditions? Why not experience a more intimate moment? Your wedding, your vibe—not the one imposed on you!

A traditional wedding can quickly become an overly formatted event. With an elopement, you experience a more authentic and true-to-yourself experience. It’s your day. Forget about others’ expectations. Celebrate your love your way.

2. Experiences matter more to us than material things.

Today’s couples often prefer memorable experiences over material possessions. Why not start your life together by discovering an amazing place? A breathtaking landscape, or a new culture? An elopement lets you choose an adventure with meaning. Whether it’s a hike, a sunset on a kayak, or a peaceful moment at a cabin.

A traditional wedding can turn into a bit of a formulaic event. An elopement gives you the freedom to choose what excites you. We’re here to help you build your story, step by step. You have the vision, and we have the expertise to make it happen.

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3. We don’t like being the center of attention.

Does the thought of all eyes on you make you nervous? It’s normal! If the idea of saying your vows in front of a crowd scares you, an elopement is perfect for you. Many couples prefer a private moment, away from the spotlight. You say “I do” in a natural setting, without pressure.

Why not share your first dance, just the two of you? No judgment, just love. If you want to sing or play the guitar, it’s your moment. You are the only ones who get to decide.

4. Traditional weddings are expensive.

A traditional wedding can quickly reach staggering costs. Did you know that the average cost of a wedding in Canada is between $30,000 and $45,000? Imagine what you could do with that amount: a world trip, a down payment on a house… or even a dream elopement at an incredible location.

Fewer vendors to pay means more freedom to invest in what really matters. Less stress, more fun. An elopement is an authentic wedding that reflects you.

5. We hate meticulous planning.

No doubt, organizing a traditional wedding can become a real headache! Between details, color choices, seating plans… If all this fuss gives you headaches, an elopement could be the solution. Less planning = more freedom. You enjoy your day without checking the clock. An intimate wedding means lightness, the chance to savor every moment.

6. We want a wedding with a low environmental impact.

Traditional weddings generate a large amount of waste. Want to celebrate your love while respecting the planet? An elopement is an eco-friendly solution. Fewer decorations, less wasted food, less transportation. This means a much smaller environmental footprint.

You can even choose a local elopement in Quebec at an eco-friendly venue. Marry your love for nature and simplicity with your passion. Why not opt for a greener wedding?

7. We want to avoid drama.

Traditional weddings can quickly turn into dramas. Whether it’s the behavior of certain guests, creating the seating plan, or family tensions… An elopement lets you avoid these stressors, celebrating your wedding with just the two of you, or with a few people who fully respect who you are. No need to please everyone. Just yourselves.

8. We want a wedding day that truly represents us.

A traditional wedding can easily turn into a staged performance. You end up playing a role, following a script that’s not necessarily yours. There’s pressure to please everyone and meet all expectations. The moments that should be the most intimate can end up in the spotlight.

With an elopement, it’s your story that takes center stage. No forced costumes, no pre-written scenarios. You are truly yourselves, in a setting that inspires you. Every moment is authentic, every gesture makes sense. An elopement lets you break free from conventions and celebrate your love your way.

So, are you ready to say “yes” to an authentic and personnal wedding day? If an elopement speaks to you, but you still have questions, contact us!

We’re here to help you plan and create the wedding day of your dreams.